youthfuldominance:

Never forget boy. I am always here for you. Our bond is so much more than domination and submission. 

youthfuldominance:

Never forget boy. I am always here for you. Our bond is so much more than domination and submission. 

domtop2u:

He been waiting all week. Thinking about it at work, at the gym. His SIR is going to grace him with attention today. His heart is beating as he puts on the gear his SIR commanded, and gets into position. His heart jumps as he hears heavy steps approach his door.
Finally he has a purpose, he has a place.

domtop2u:

He been waiting all week. Thinking about it at work, at the gym. His SIR is going to grace him with attention today. His heart is beating as he puts on the gear his SIR commanded, and gets into position. His heart jumps as he hears heavy steps approach his door.

Finally he has a purpose, he has a place.

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youthfuldominance:

Worshiping a Man’s body should never be done quickly. It should be slow. It should be methodical. It should be concentrated. 

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gayboykink:

youthfuldominance:

gayboykink:

Not even halfway there and you already start struggling? Nooo, here, let me show you how it’s done.

Now now gayboykink, we need to teach boys how to be better, not do their work for them. Give him some tips on how to be a better boy. 

Of course, Sir!Here are some tips for this boy:
1) Align your throat with the cock’s curve for deeper penetration. Don’t approach from the side, but sit between his legs or on top of his chest. The latter has the extra benefit of having your hole ready to be eaten if your man wants to give some positive feedback. 
2) Don’t make your man hold up his dick for you, unless he wants your cock cucking to be 100% hands-free. Let him focus solely on your stimulation and your submission as his cock sucker.
3) Eye-contact. It’s far more enjoyable for both parties to see the lust growing in each other’s eyes while having sex. The boy now can’t see the wonderful sex faces his man is making. Such a pity!

gayboykink:

youthfuldominance:

gayboykink:

Not even halfway there and you already start struggling? Nooo, here, let me show you how it’s done.

Now now gayboykink, we need to teach boys how to be better, not do their work for them. Give him some tips on how to be a better boy. 

Of course, Sir!
Here are some tips for this boy:

1) Align your throat with the cock’s curve for deeper penetration. Don’t approach from the side, but sit between his legs or on top of his chest. The latter has the extra benefit of having your hole ready to be eaten if your man wants to give some positive feedback. 

2) Don’t make your man hold up his dick for you, unless he wants your cock cucking to be 100% hands-free. Let him focus solely on your stimulation and your submission as his cock sucker.

3) Eye-contact. It’s far more enjoyable for both parties to see the lust growing in each other’s eyes while having sex. The boy now can’t see the wonderful sex faces his man is making. Such a pity!

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Anonymous said: How do you know if your sub truly can't take anymore? Do you use a safeword? Your subs are always gagged and heavily bound; how can you tell if they're trying to signal you?

azdesertsub:

hushpuppy1980:

alfredosian:

There’s actually a lot of communication going on during a session. A tiny part of it is verbal. Utterances like “oh, yeah”, “thank you, Sir”, “ouch!”, “fuck, Fuck, FUCK”, “stop, please stop”.

But the majority is non verbal. And for the most part not entirely under the sub’s conscious control, which can be more revealing. For example breathing pattern, sighs, moans, groans, screams, whimpers, their tone (satisfaction, frustration, pleading, …), pitch, loudness or periodicity, facial expressions (neutral, biting lips, gaping mouth, squinting eyes, …), movements (sudden or slow, deliberate or disorderly, in or out sync with the stimulation, …), posture (back arched, head raised, body twisted, …), strain against the bonds, pelvic movements, hand movements (grabbing at the sheets or restraints, hyper extended, making a fist, pumping, relaxed, …), toes (curling or wiggling), quality of erection (semi-hard, hard, rock hard), softening or hardening, balls hanging loose or tightening, involuntary muscle spasms, sweating, goose bumps, and so on.

Body language is a rich, nuanced, high bandwidth communication medium. It reveals pretty much all you want to know about the sub’s state of mind. Whether he’s anxious, relaxed, needs a short break, starts to reach his limits, is already past them, getting distracted, tired, eager for more, close to climax, … You just have to listen and, as a good sadist, use the information against him.

So, to answer your first question, it’s easy, the sub tells me. Just not with spoken words.

I usually play with a safeword. It’s a good tool to have in the tool box. But not one that I rely on, because as a Dom you can’t trust that a sub will safeword if / when needed. For a variety of reasons, some subs are not always psychologically capable of safewording in situations where they should. E.g.:

  • They want to please the Dom and feel that safewording would be letting him down.
  • They’re so deep in subspace that they may not even recall that there is a safeword.
  • They’re high on adrenalin and endorphin, which alters their perception of pain and assessment of the situation.

I use safewords in three forms:

  • A spoken word. Usually “red”.
  • Three short grunts.
  • A silent check. The sub must respond to a double hand squeeze with the same. Failure to do so stops the session.

All three can be used with most forms of bondage, including when gagged. Contrary to common conception, gags are good at garbling sounds, but remarkably ineffective at muffling them. I also like using gags that remain comfortable for several hours i.e. not the super sized tonsil tickling or jaw breaking kind. These gags provide enough freedom for short words like “red” or grunts to remain not audible but perfectly identifiable, while still rendering structured speech unintelligible and futile. This is a great way to stay safe, comfortable and reinforce the sub’s sense of helplessness, making him more submissive and helping him focus on the sensations.

Now THAT is how a dom should be.

This dom know what he is doing!

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onyourkneesfaggot:

Providing excellent service to your Master can be a lonely task. There may be times when He will have other things to pay attention to, and He may leave you on your own in less than comfortable positions, simply as an experiment in seeing how you have grown, and how you react.
Enjoy such moments for what they are, an opportunity to show Him both how important He is to you, and how much you value the chance to give Him service.

onyourkneesfaggot:

Providing excellent service to your Master can be a lonely task. There may be times when He will have other things to pay attention to, and He may leave you on your own in less than comfortable positions, simply as an experiment in seeing how you have grown, and how you react.

Enjoy such moments for what they are, an opportunity to show Him both how important He is to you, and how much you value the chance to give Him service.

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